IT'S THE LITTLE THINGS AND THE JOY THEY BRING

It occurred to me that I often share the bad but not often the good, now my life is not as colorful as some but simple things delight me like finding a free standing M.A.C store in my local mall suddenly the mall just became a whole lot cooler again.

Spending time with my family especially my nieces and nephews who are such crazy fun awesome kids they amaze me with the things they do and say. Then there is my love of doing arts and crafts, painting anything that is paint-able and something as simple as finding a really cute pair of jeans, or getting my hair done or my feet and nails done. These are the little nuggets of richness in my life the mundane everyday ordinary things that are delightful.

Hearing a new song that has to be put on repeat until I am absolutely tired of it, trips to the 24/7 walmart, scented candles, warm comforters, cute shoes, black and white movies, anime cartoon and movies, writing, karaoke, online shopping.

Hobo bags, leggings, warm boots, concerts, having a girls night out, trips to Vegas, being told you're sexy,cute,pretty, etc ego boosters, personalized jewelry, going to the movies sparingly because they are so high its better to just buy the dvd now, doing a good deed, treating someone to something when you have the resources, shopping for my niece, listening to her chatter, playing with her.

New ink, being inspired to get new ink, a favorite tattoo, smelling good, a trusty ipod whatever generation, fuzzy sweaters, funky colored heels, a signature scent, HULU, waking up in my right mind, oatmeal with brown sugar, warm slippers, comfy bedclothes, putting on makeup, taking makeup off and just unwinding after a night out, watching my brothers grow up, new sneakers, leopard print anything, making my family laugh, cooking a good meal, hot tea with honey, spending the holidays with family.

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LIKE PIGS AT A TROUGH

I held back from further commenting on the Chrianna situation because at the end of the day like I have been telling people around me and it's way to many stories swirling around them as is adding fuel to the fire just makes the flame grow especially since:

1. we don't know what happened fact wise.
2. this is a private matter that is acerbated by the media and gossip bloggers alike.
3. if anyone has to resort to violence then they both should be put up on assault charges, and that's for anyone that uses violence against a person unless it's self defense.
4. both of parties involved need some kind of counseling and personal time to themselves.

But with that said there comes the slippery slope, if a woman jumps in a mans face and proceeds to hit him then is he not justified in hitting her back or is he just supposed to take it because the laws are on the woman's side? If it were two people of the same sex fighting it would be considered assault. If a woman on the street was hit by a man she didn't know it would be considered battery. If a woman hits a man she doesn't know it's considered assault but when the two people are in what is considered a relationship type situation then the terms are paired with domestic and then victim rights go out the window.

Suddenly her face is plastered on every two bit gossip blog, regular blog, even black planet. For a full week that's all I have seen and still see on some blogs is the picture purchased by TMZ trotted out like a show pony. Not because it's tragic and we should rally behind this young woman, for the simple fact that this is something sensational to exploit. Something to gawk at and shake our heads and bemoan the beast that did this, even though we still don't have any facts on the matter. It's ironic how people are so concerned about Rhianna but the first chance they got to exploit her battered image they did. Where do morals and ethics come in at? When is the line drawn? What about her rights as a victim? Does she not deserve privacy in this matter? If that was your sister, or mother, daughter, cousin, loved one would you have wanted her bruised face used as a platform to advance page hits, and get your name out there in terms of readership? How hard is it for this young woman to clear her mind when she has all these people clamoring at her telling her what she should be doing in this situation and then to force her hand they release her picture world wide. In the mean time Brown hasn't even been to trial yet but already he is guilty, he is all kinds of bastards, and sons of bitches, he is losing endorsement deals, movie posters, his image has taken a public beating. Again I am not justifying I'm just saying already in the peoples public opinion many have already convicted this 18 year old boy and are calling for his blood.

AND THE FACT THAT EVERYONE SEEMS TO BE MISSING IS, WASN'T NAR ONE OF US IN THE CAR, ON THE SIDEWALK, IN THE HOSPITAL, WE HAVEN'T TALKED TO EITHER ONE OF THESE YOUNG PEOPLE BUT ALREADY PEOPLE HAVE TAKEN SIDES. MINUTES AFTER IT HAPPENED WORLD WIDE IT WAS SAID HE DID IT BECAUSE SHE GAVE HIM HERPES. WITH THE ADVANCE OF THE WORLD WIDE WEB INFO IS SPREAD RAPIDLY AND IT DOESN'T EVEN HAVE TO BE ACCURATE IT JUST HAS TO BE SENSATIONAL and the public proceeds to eat it up like pigs at a trough.



It's sad. Instead of just keeping both these troubled young folks in our prayers and offering them encouragement and counseling and just some time for them to reflect and get their spirits together the media is constantly cranking out stories that may or may not be fact, and every time a story is published it is ran with the world is a heartless compassionless place, sad... Read more...

I BEEN IN A RECESSION Y'ALL JUST CATCHING UP

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I know that I have posted this before but Its too brilliant not to re-post again, and since I am the only one who reads this blog it matters not if I post it again.

Dear Uncle Sam:

Hi, it's me the one you know as ***-**-****. I have worked in your system since I was the ripe age of 19 officially. I have had jobs that paid a wage that wouldn't even keep a well fed pooch alive let alone a person with financial responsibilities. You see Uncle Sam I have tried my hardest to do right, work, be a responsible citizen and pledge my allegiance to my country even when I think you're wrong I still would just shrug and chop it up to America being America. I thought we had some type of understanding I would work my way up the pay scale and you would raise my wages due to a cost of living increase. Some where along the lines though Uncle Sam you failed me. You wrote books and legislation's on freedom, and democracy, you said give us your hungry and poor and we will clothe and feed them we will welcome you with open arms because we are America and that is our duty and we do it proudly.

Well Uncle Sam I am pissed off because I am American born and bred but I can't pay not a one of my bills because I can't find a job that will hire me with a wage rate that will allow me to keep up with the cost of my expenses and the cost of living in southern California. I own that I have made financial missteps but no worst then the wheffa who runs up her charge card on gucci, and prada. Actually my mistakes don't even amount to anything that huge, but I digress. I have not used the best of judgment at times but to repeatedly deny me work thus not allowing me to better my situation and pull myself up by my bootstraps is that not a blatant mockery of what America stands for? How can I better my situation if I can't get a job paying decent wages due to my current FICA score? I am stuck in the catch 22, I have gotten sucked into this downward spiral and I am stuck at the bottom and I am caught in the drainpipe called despair. What about me have I not be a loyal citizen? Have I not warranted your care, or help? Have you not seen me broken and beaten down by my financial circumstances? What would you have me do? Prostitute my body? Sell drugs? Rob and steal? After I take one of these alternative methods of living into consideration and I happen to get caught by your boys in blue Johnny law and they throw me under the penal system and give me life because I can't afford a high profile lawyer to plead my case what then Uncle Sam?

At this point in my life I just want simple things I want to be able to maintain a well paying job, one that will allow me to pull myself out of the financial bind that has become my resting place, I want to be able to live on my own with having to worry about where my next meal is coming from or if my lights and gas will be turned off. I want to be a productive member of society but I am being penalized because I can't afford to pay my bills and have made some poor financial choices in my life. I am now not a worthy candidate to be hired because according to employers who run a background check and see a poor credit history/score they say it speaks to my trustworthiness and therefore my credit score says that I could be considered untrustworthy around sensitive information, that I am susceptible to bribes, that I may commit fraud using someone else's information etc. In actuality I have never even stole so much as a piece of bubblegum, nor would I ever steal because if I was a thief I wouldn't be poor I would be rich, if I had no integrity I would be a winner because people with no integrity do whatever it takes to make that almighty dollar, they bend the truth, they use "creative" money management, they do whorish things to get ahead in life, suck a little dick, put out porn tapes, write about extramarital affairs, sleep with their bosses to get ahead etc. So what would you advise me to do Uncle Sam if no one will hire me for anything what recourse do I have? I am at the whim of the world I can't even pay my cellphone bill and yes that will go on my credit also, my bank account is also overdrawn and yes that will go on my credit also and the fun just keeps going.

I just want to say thank you for thinking of me when you passed these laws that made it virtually impossible to improve upon my financial situation, thank you for valuing people from other countries better than you value your native sons and daughters. Thank you for not allowing a single black women who has no kids to be eligible for any kind of aid or benefits because you don't consider her destitute enough. If anyone were to ask me where the greatest place in the world is to live I would truly be at a lost for words because right now my life is fucked up and you don't give a shit but yet you say I shouldn't be lazy, and trifling, pushing out babies and putting them on the counties dime. Yet when I don't do that I can't get any financial help so Thank you Uncle Sam for being that uncle that rapes me in the basement and robs me of my dignity repeatedly. I am your least favorite Niece, the forgotten and the destitute yet you want me to believe in you, care about you, work towards a common goal and do my part. Why not just give me my own BET reality show you can call it a "broke black bitch with no whip and no chips" or how about "Shuckin' and jivin' coon time for that prime time dime" or "America's next baby momma with three different baby daddies who all have to go on Maury and none of them are still not the father" I digress. You have to wonder about a country that rewards stupidity, turns a back to everyday american's with real financial needs, but makes instant stars out of women who use there wombs as a revolving door for romper room. If this world isn't fucked up and backwards then I must not having my thinking in order.



Signed your least favorite, never thought of native niece

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RANDOM THOUGHTS

A new president...A beautiful black family in office...people keep saying be the change you want to see in the world...there should be a blueprint or some form of footsteps to follow...why do the dumbest people think that they are outsmarting everyone else in the world...just because you are a hook or by crook individual does not make it right...the world does not revolve around the things that have personally happened to you...it would be nice if it did but it doesn't believe me I know this as a fact...why can my mother gleam money out of the air but she can't manage it well...why she keep talking divorce but she still here...I want to go back to school badly but money IS a object, my stumbling block...grants loans scholarships...schools are now harder to get into and the money is hard to come by...Does Jesus even hear me when I pray...I am so tired mentally and emotionally it manifest itself physically sometimes... HE wasn't even worth 20 minutes but he got under my skin never again, if he was on fire I wouldn't even piss on him...will my family ever be alright...will change happen for me...what am I not doing in the right way...Blessings are few and far between....I.am.an.Island.of.1. Read more...

A LITTLE QUIZ BIZ

Since I give you nothing but raw food for thought most days I decided I would give you some feel good gooey starchy comfort food with a little get to know you quiz, courtesy of Odeezy aka closet freak from over at GIMMIE THE GOODIES

*Birthplace: INGLEWATTS
*Right Handed or Left Handed:RIGHT
*Who was your kindergarten teacher? Iont recall
*What is your favorite type of ice cream?:BEN AND JERRY'S
*Ever been Drunk:HELL TO DA YES, I DO NOT LIKE THAT NUCCA EARL
*Number of Piercings:2
*Basketball Or Football:BASKETBALL
*What album are you ashamed to have?:THAT HARLEM WORLD CD, DIDN'T EVEN LISTEN 2 IT BUT ONCE (HANGS HEAD IN SHAME)
*What would you do if a leprechaun jumped out of the bushes and stole ur wallet?:WHAT IN DA HELL Y'ALL SMOKING ON, Y'ALL SEE LITTLE GREEN MEN IN Y'ALL HOODS?
*Would you rather get raped by Micheal Jackson or Elton John?:EWWWW CAN I TAKE NEITHER FOR 100 PLEASE
*Hugs or Kisses?:KISSES
*Name 4 things you always have with you:ID CASE, KEYS, SENSE, SOUND MIND
*Favorite Perfume/Cologne:ANYTHING ESCADA
*Who did let the dogs out? :JOE MOMMA LOL
*Have you ever been in a physical fight? How Many?:Yep WAY 2 MANY 2 COUNT
*Can you Whistle?: Yep
*What is your weapon of choice? Words,AND KNIVES OR A BOX CUTTER IN A PINCH
*Who was the last person who got really angry at you? PROBABLY A LITTLE BROTHER
*What is your pet peeve?WHEN NASTY MOFO'S BLOW THEIR NOSE AT THE TABLE WITH THEIR NAPKIN, SHIT IS JUST GROSS!
*Weirdest Dream...: CAN'T RECALL
*Favorite Villain...: ANY ONE THAT WAS BAD AND GOT AWAY
*Guys in pink are...SENSITIVE THUGS
*Have you ever fallen up the stairs? Hell yeah
*You are the first to arrive at the scene of an accident but it turns out that the person hurt is your worst enemy, do you help or walk away?KICK EM WHILE THEY LYING THERE AND PROBABLY SPIT ON EM (DON'T JUDGE ME I'M WORKING ON MYSELF LOL)
*Join the Military or the Mob? Mob
*Turn a close friend in if they committed a serious offense ex. murder? DON'T ASK DON'T TELL
*Make one porno if it meant never having to work again? BRING IT ON BABY AND THEN I'M TAKING MY MONEY AND MYSELF TO A REMOTE ISLAND
*What is one thing you actually remember from kindergarten?NAPPING EVEN WHEN YOU NOT TIRED, AND THAT SNACK TIME CAME AFTER.
*If you could punch one person who would it be?DAMN JUST ONE SWSNBN JUST RIGHT TO THE DOME
*What is the worst injury you ever had? HAVEN'T HAD ANY
*Has a rumor ever been spread about you?PROBABLY BUT WHO GIVES A DAMN

***What would you do if?****

*Your favorite celebrity comes to visit you? DAMN EUGENE BYRD I HAVE LOVED YOU SINCE YOUR EARLY FAMILY MOVIES, LETS MAKE THIS THING OFFICIAL
*Someone cut off a chunk of your hair?TAKE THE OPPORTUNITY TO CUT ALL MY HAIR OFF AND DYE IT A DIFFERENT COLOR
*You found 10 dollars on the ground?HEAD STRAIGHT TO THE WALMART
*A random stranger offered you candy?IS THIS A TRICK QUESTION? IS IT CHOCOLATE?
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GETTING READY TO POSSIBLY SING MY SWAN SONG

As I was reading my sisters blog who just started blogging it occurred to me that her followship is one off from mines, yep I'm going there while I am happy for my sister I'm sad for myself! I've been blogging since what 2006 and my readership still is low like a strippers skirt, what's up with that? Can you not relate to me? Am I not friendly, personable, at the very least don't I illicit a laugh with some of the things I have been through in my checkered past? I mean come on now not saying that my sister doesn't write a great blog but damn she is new to the game and already her readership is the same as mine and she just barely started. That shit right there is enough to make me say fuck it I'm not writing a blog anymore because no one even reads this shit.

So what's the point? I know there are trillions of people all over the world who write blogs and there is not enough time in the day for every blog to be read but this is just downright disheartening I know I have a tendency to whip out my soapbox but I do it because I care. I have a tendency to be all hail fire and brimstone and just big sisterish but that's the role I was given what can I do? I don't know how to change my stripes and I wouldn't want to even if I could I like me, you might not but I do!

So what say you good people is my journey blogging here over, should I throw in the towel and just find another creative outlet because obviously y'all ain't giving a damn. Maybe my time has come to an end and I possibly should say goodbye but this time for real. If no one is reading it then its just a tree in the woods that fell with no one there to hear it fall. Either way it goes someone tell me something... I can take the truth lay it on me, please and thank you. Read more...

A FEEL GOOD POST

This graphic is a real coloring page so feel free to get it and color it if you wish. Graphic found HERE

My favorite e-sisterMS. DULCE the high priestess of healing and nurturing(no really seriously she is) said I should do a lovely dovey-ish nice post and I'm thinking sure why not it's almost the end of this year so I can accommodate Ms. Dulce. so Dulce here we go all the love/niceness you can handle.

First and foremost I love my niece she turned 1 years old this month and she is so wonderful and extraordinary I hope she grows up to be whatever her mind, and heart can grasp.

I love my younger siblings even if they work my nerves each of them are talented, strong, precious, gifted and wonderful in their own right. I know I give them a lot of shit at times but I do it because the world is tough and I know that lesson better than anyone but I love them and will go hard for them no matter what.

The people that follow this blog and the readers that read here by chance and on purpose I appreciate you most of all its an exciting thing to have someone wanting to read the things that you write and caring enough to keep coming back that is a huge thing so humbly I say thank you.

Creativity is a beautiful thing if you have an imagination and you are creativity inclined that is a wonderful thing in of itself, so always think outside of the box! No need to be boxed in when you have creativity and imagination!

Love is a perfume, and it smells great...infatuation is a cheap knock off but it will get the job done until it either wears off or makes it to love, and lust is like a greasy burger all fat, taste good, but you will always regret it later! So find all the love your heart can hold, it's so worth it!

I feel grateful for life, and life's lessons its like battle strips I earned them all and it has shaped me into the person I am today and I have got to say I like me, even if some of you don't!

Coming soon will be a nasty sexalicious gutter butt just raunchy post so if you are easily shocked might not want to read it but I said I was going to do one for the end of the year and I don't want to go back on my word I want to push my limits and stretch my imagination so look out for that post coming soon!

Well Ms. Dulce I hope this satisfied your love post quota lol.

P.S. Oh the joy that is HIM...way too old to be feeling like this but what a rush, makes my skin tingle, my scalp prickle, and my nerves stand on edge, ugh I said I would stop crushing but I can't help myself, so here we go again. Trying not to feel like this but I can't help myself...if he calls me baby one more time...

Anywho we are going into a new year, a new president, a new first-lady and family, we are heading into the future and I am excited a new year means new possibilities and new excitements, can you feel it people...excitement is a wonderful thing be possibility!

This is a coloring page also feel free to use it as such.

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DEAR RAPPERS AND SHAYFER SMITH...

Dear rappers and Shayfer:



And everyone else hollering about how you make your own cash and can pay your bills on time that's great that's what your supposed to do so why all of a sudden is it a new thing and you feel the need to big up yourselves about it? We get it you have money and you're proud you pay your bills, so? Why is that so news worthy? Why do we have to have whole songs and movements dedicated to mofo's paying their bills? I don't give a shit if you can pay your bills I don't want to hear a whole song about you paying your bills or you having your own THAT'S WHAT YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO DO IT'S NOT SONG, NEWS, OR BRAG WORTHY! Ordinary people do not go around talking about how they pay their bills on time they pay them and they move on because they come around every damn month.

I understand that as a man with a little bit of money you are worried about women and men using you for your stacks but look here some of y'all already trick off money, and don't pay your own bills, your houses get repossessed, your cars get repossessed, and then you end up in the blogs shamed and trying to save face talking shit about how someone screwed you over money wise but guess what that's your fault! If you don't know how much you're worth and trust all your money to someone else you will get ripped off and screwed! That's just fucking sense but like I always say sense is not common. So look rappers and ne-yo aka Shayfer smith this is what I want you to do, find yourselves some women that has her own stacks and can afford to buy whatever she like and all she need from you is some dick but do me a favor stop talking about the shit. You are giving the simple minded the wrong idea and they are taking it and running the shit into the ground! Go some where and be their fuck buddy and sit it down for a spell, please and thank you now have a very happy holidays, and please let's enter this new year with a new music agenda, no bitches, no hoes, no talking about independence because that's a given, and please no talking about your swagger, how much you spend on shit that rapidly depreciates and has no value, it's tired and I'm tired of hearing it. Get it together in the new year if you have any problems or questions or need some inspiration about what to rap about please feel free to drop me a note.

Sincerely
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STOP REGULATING MY DAMN FEELINGS THANKS!

I know that I write on a public platform for all to judge and see, and comment on. I get that but sometimes the things that are written are purely feeling based, mainly in the moment things, which causes me to reflect and write on it. With that said I understand that the people who comment have my best interest at heart but telling me that being single is great and that I have time and I shouldn't feel a certain way when I do is like telling a horse to please act like a duck and that's not even by any stretch of the imagination cool.

Everyone has different feelings, outlooks, and experiences that they draw from. I certainly don't think like the majority of the public and my opinions sometimes change depending on a situation or what I am going through at the moment. My point is it is great to offer someone your thoughts, or feelings on a matter but you have to be careful how you do that. Please stop telling people how they should feel or think for that matter based on YOUR thoughts and feelings. I'm sure I am more than guilty of it myself but as I read others responses to a person's post I can't help but get a little irritated sometimes. Offering your opinion, thoughts or feelings, in an unoffensive way is an art and many people don't have that art. Many people simply don't know how to not be offensive me included. I'm sure I have trampled on someones feelings more than I care to imagine but now that I am aware of that nasty little habit I will try and regulate that.

Stop telling me I am wrong for the way that I feel is my bottom line, step telling me that what I am going through will get better cause dammit sometimes it doesn't get better. Stop telling me that being single is the greatest thing since sliced cheese and that I should be patient and sit by my window and pray that God finally gets around to hooking me up with the man of my dreams, get real. You have to be proactive God can't do it all you have to put in your fair share of the work also. Just like he can't go to work for you while you sit at home you have to go to a job put in your time and earn that paycheck! It's ironic though that the people who tell me that being coupled up is overrated is always the people who ARE COUPLED UP! What is that, that's like telling a whore that sex is overrated while she is making big bucks from having lots of it. Come on tell me that being a part of a couple is overrated after you have broken up then I might be inclined to believe you!

Last but not least nothing in particular caused me to write this post JUST WHAT I WAS FEELING AT THIS EXACT MOMENT! Hope every one's weekend was most excellent, peace. Read more...

JUST A LITTLE SOMETHING

I have been feeling so blah lately especially since the holidays are coming up but my pockets are super empty, which just takes the little bit of wind I had in my sails right on out of it. I can't even get things that I want to for my niece who's birthday is in December also, honestly I feel like I am at a new low. I thought it couldn't get any worst but...I just keep proving myself wrong.

Sorry enough bitching about me I'm sure we all going through something at this point in time so I digress. I feel so late because this video came out on the 7th but better late than never. I give you heartless by Kanye West I love this man he has YET to do wrong in my eyes. Call him what you want but you won't call him broke! BTW if my brother wins the drum off competition tonight I am officially interviewing him for this blog cause that would make him my official rawk star so stay tuned for that latest development.

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RANDOM EARLY MORNING MUSINGS

Has anyone ever asked a successful person what makes them successful? Is it what they know, or who they know? Is it they were at the right place at the right time, for their gifts to shine? Was it hard work a million no's before that one yes? I wonder about myself and I try to examine myself often, why do I have this roadblock to success? Am I my own worst enemy? Is greatness not for me? Am I at the right place or stuck in the wrong place? Do I not have the tools I need to succeed? What is keeping me stuck in this mud? This bog of nothingness? How do I put myself in a place 2 prosper? Where do I start? ....

Am I smart or just a storage of useless information, what is my purpose here? Will I ever find it will it ever be reveled? Does it take courage to pursue your dreams? What if your dreams are intangible? Do you have to be a fearless fool in order to pursue dreams? If perception is reality then why do I feel like I am stuck in an endless cycle? Does going to therapy help get you out of your head and make you feel better?

Crossroads... Desires, weakness, strength, unhappiness, ineptitude. Run a circle never ending loop, nothing wrong with them something wrong with you, makes no sense, forgive the rambling just trying to figure it all out. Read more...

HAVING A T-SHIRT AND MY PANTIES ON TYPE MOMENT

Panties by the78msj<

You ever have a "t-shirt and my panties on" kind of moment, the nonsexual type moment of course, When just being by yourself in your bra and panties or t-shirt and panties is just so comfortable that you feel just uber relaxed? I'm having one of those moments as I type this. I'm just in my space doing me and just living. Now I am one with the moment after being on edge all day.

This little set is too cute for words no? I had finished the post and then stumbled upon this and it screamed put me in your post and I was like right no problem!


I went to talk with the army recruiter and even though he used mouthwash he's a drinker/drunk when you have to drink just to get through your day it's something not right. Plus the recruitment office was all drab and crazy, like male testosterone times 10 and then they had these chicks in there like army groupies but they were one of the boys but youngish I just wanted to get the hell up outta there. I am praying that a job comes through or it's the army I go. I don't need to be army strong I just want to have study damn employment. It's a sign of the times when you have to seek out the damn army to have gainful employment. Which means I have to pass the army's aptitude test plus do boot fucking camp ugh what the hell I just want a clerical gig, I don't want a gun I don't want to march I just want to type and answer phone calls and then leave at 5pm with all the benefits that the army can afford me now is that too much to ask for?

I really need a suga daddy okay maybe not a suga daddy but someone who will buy me cute shoes, take me out, tell me I can have whateva I like, make me the missus on the hill, make sweet love to me down by the fireplace on a plush bear skin rug, I would love love love that, and don't none of y'all come over here talking that enjoy being single jazz I've done single done it to death in fact now it's time to switch it on up. You get to a point where you have been single so long when it does come time for coupledom you can't do it because you are so stuck in your single ways, which is not a good look. So save your being single is great comments for the next chick and Let me dream people, dreams never hurt nobody.

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BECAUSE I LOVE VARIETY

I got tired of the dark look and decided to step into the light plus having two side panels and still enough space to write is a winner, just the header is all funky don't worry I always figure out something and that probably will be changing in the near future.

I feel tired as I am writing this post, I went outside and took a walk today needless to say I need to do that more so defiantly going to be getting more physical exercise I really want to take different kinds of exercise classes though. I hate boring traditional workouts if I can have fun, burn calories, and do something that doesn't feel like a workout then I am all for it. I really want to take the STRIPPER aerobics workout that sounds super fun and plus where can you burn calories, learn a skill/trade feel sexy and get to exercise in 6 inch heels all at the same time? That right there sounds like a winner to me! I also want to learn how to swim, I love being in the water again a fun activity for me plus its something I would want to do. Belly dancing classes also again sounds way fun, and you get to move like Shakira which is a skill and hot.

I also like roller skating but in neighborhoods with flava which means exclusively to me W.O.W if you not from L.A. and you didn't come up during the 80's early 90's you can't even comprehend of which I speak. I did my fair share of skating at W.O.W it was a great place to bad it got a bad reputation thanks to the few who wanted to show out and mess it up for the rest of us. I'm sure it's gotten better since then though, real talk I always wanted a skating rink of my own a place for kids to hang out and work and all that stuff. But simple things like roller skating kids not into anymore they rather sit home and play on they Nintendo Wii systems.

Case in point this is the skating rink that was the bases for the movie ATL.

clip of the movie where they introduce the skating, not the best quality but the movie should be in your collection anyway if not YOU CAN HAVE WHATEVA YOU LIKE

Musiq's new video with Mary J Blige first time I'm seeing it but it doesn't invoke any type of reaction from me and for some reason Mohawks on black men annoy me, that hairstyle is not attractive not at all it just looks like you left something undone on top of your head, but I'm old school so it is what it is.

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JUST SOME COME SEE ABOUT IT

okay so you know I am all for team Obama so I thought I would share the most beautiful moving picture essay done by one of President Obama's photog's it is so beautiful and plus they make my heart swell and give me hope for black love YES WE CAN have beautiful build together type of black relationships and as long as one person holds the dream dear then hope will never be gone, well until I die but I digress.

Another thing you should be up on is your twit game if you don't know what that is you are the last person on this planet that doesn't know lol, you can check it out and FOLLOW ME HERE after you make your account of course.

what else I got for you hmmmm if you want to get me something for Christmas THE 78 MS. J would be hot in a two finger ring, a necklace or even some earrings dopeness, in gold.

ummm oh yeah all the guys that come to my page and read my single life post guys don't take it as a I hate being single type thing. I don't hate being single I'm just over being single I have done single now it's time to do coupledom. I mean I am of age and it is time to jump that broom and have at least two kids the right way. So cut me some slack laugh and giggle at the post but don't leave the be single and enjoy it type comments been single 5yrs that chapter is so OVER and DONE with, but please don't stop commenting cause I love your comments and I appreciate them. Because you don't have to come read my blog but you did so that get's huge appreciation.

Last but not least is this here video fact or fiction! Please leave your thoughts about this one Bristol Palin's baby daddy is really black???:

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