Sunday, November 30, 2014
Wednesday, November 12, 2014
WHY DO WHITE PEOPLE NEED TO SAY THE WORD NIGGA SO BAD AND WHY ARE YOU OUT HERE EXCUSING IT SO THEY CAN?
It’s the same with what we might call “Cross-Racial Nigga.” Because “nigga” is not “n—ger,” a white guy saying nigga is not using a slur—he’s using a term of affection, often for another white guy. Cross-Racial Nigga is a byproduct of the “browning” or “tanning” of American culture over the past 20 years, such that many Latino, Asian and white Americans, and others, have adopted the cultural trappings of blackness—in music, speech patterns, body language, humor, etc.—to such an extent that it starts to feel natural to use the corresponding term of affection.
Sure, some of them in quiet moments say they feel as if in some ways they “are” black. And just as sure, they aren’t—there is no denying the grisly meaning of things like what happened to Trayvon Martin. Yet even the racial realities of what happened to Trayvon don’t lead us to pretend that words don’t change meaning, or even that somehow when it comes to one word with an ugly racial history, we can somehow block that from happening.
To wit, a person, white or black, can be perfectly aware of this country’s hideous racial history and happily refer to his friends as nigga. Because “nigga” is not “n—ger.”
Sunday, September 14, 2014
Sunday, September 07, 2014
Sunday, June 15, 2014
Sunday, June 01, 2014
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Wednesday, April 16, 2014
100 QUESTIONS TO ASK BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED
I had no hand in writing any of these questions but I decided to post them because they seemed like good questions and some people might forget to ask the pertinent stuff if they haven't already. It can be exciting getting married but if you want the marriage to last there is lots of leg work to do in the relationship first so if you or someone you know is getting married refer them to this post and past this list around it might help you before you make it down that aisle.
Tuesday, April 08, 2014
Thursday, February 06, 2014
Saturday, January 11, 2014
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