tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4159209783484594731.post5012919280369889286..comments2023-05-16T07:56:10.509-07:00Comments on A BPYT'S BLOG: R. KELLY'S UTOPIAN DREAM...THE 78' MS. Jhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13752294635301998277noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4159209783484594731.post-19062948886577516402008-10-24T00:25:00.000-07:002008-10-24T00:25:00.000-07:00@torrance stephens: me too i don't like R Kelly!@torrance stephens: me too i don't like R Kelly!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4159209783484594731.post-79426090785861755972008-10-17T17:13:00.000-07:002008-10-17T17:13:00.000-07:00@ Dulce you already know how I feel about kids and...@ Dulce you already know how I feel about kids and marriage, and <BR/>I agree with everything you said. Women all over the world are underrated and treated as 2nd class citizens everyday. We just have o keep hoping for the best and keep trying to pus for change, in the right direction. As Always I appreciate your comments, have a blessed weekend.<BR/><BR/>@Torrance you didn't even read this post cause it wasn't about r. kelly at all!THE 78' MS. Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13752294635301998277noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4159209783484594731.post-31466569716970880942008-10-17T16:56:00.000-07:002008-10-17T16:56:00.000-07:00girl this almost brought tears to my eyes. you kno...girl this almost brought tears to my eyes. you know i am about to write you an essay right? LOL. this may be a topic that i post on in the future.<BR/><BR/>let me start of by saying this, although America is a hell of a country and was built on the genocide of American Indians and the free labor of Africans, this is somewhat the best place in the world for women.<BR/><BR/>however, we as women are still secondary when it comes to education, financies, the politics of sex and many other things. i strive for a balance because we are all seeing the harmful effects of a macho sex driven society and world. <BR/><BR/>what is better, for young girls to be forced into marriage (india, africa, south america) or for young girls to be taken advantage of and left alone with nothing (as in pac's song brenda's got a baby). this is not R Kelly's dream because in no shape form or fashion does he desire to marry anyone. <BR/><BR/>when my great grandparents married, my great grandma had just turned 16 and my grandad was 24 or 25. that was just 4 generations ago. they did however stay married for 60+ years and built a beautiful home and life together. in many ways, america is not different from any other society, the way things pop off is just different. we implant and botox ourselves to stay young looking. age is not longer revered it is shunned. as women we have power to build, to give life and to create. i want us to tap into that power and not wait for a man to actualize us or our dreams. i used to think my life was incomplete without a man there to help guide me.<BR/><BR/>this society and many indigenous societies have been raped of their culture and humanity, so we have men that are underdeveloped spritually and mentally. therefore instead of desiring a woman that they can grow with, they desire a young girl that they can mold to their liking.<BR/><BR/>although i do desire a husband, i am proud that i have reached the point in my life where i am comfortable being with myself. i have developed spiritually, career wise and most importantly i still have big dreams for my future. i am inspired to mentor and tutor young girls and once again am so so glad that you put up this post. i think i will stop now but thank you my sister. we are so very fortunate.<BR/><BR/>as black women however we have the lowest rate ever of marraige. in his song with lauryn hill common said "there are too many black women that are but cant say they are wives" we come from too many broken and undeveloped families. i want us to be able to get back to that. and to build healthy marriages and raise children with that right mind set.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4159209783484594731.post-31904669750626915512008-10-17T08:44:00.000-07:002008-10-17T08:44:00.000-07:00looking good over here, and me no like r kellylooking good over here, and me no like r kellyAll-Mi-T [Thought Crime] Rawdawgbuffalohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08843040863123899426noreply@blogger.com